Love & Respect

Love & Respect

The Love She Most Desires, the Respect He Desperately Needs

Book - 2004
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Based upon Ephesians 5:33 and extensive biblical and psychological research, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs reveals the power of unconditional love and unconditional respect and how husbands and wives can reap the benefits of marriage that God intended.--Publisher description.
Publisher: Nashville, TN : Integrity Publishers ; Colorado Springs, Colo. : Focus on the Family, c2004
ISBN: 9781591451877
Branch Call Number: 248.844 EGGERIC
Characteristics: viii, 324 p. : ill. ; 24 cm
Alternative Title: Love and respect


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Apr 09, 2017

This book is not for everyone. It is interesting, and always learning new things is good. My husband is constantly telling me I undermine his authority with our children. I thought this book would help me understand his perspective. Instead of reacting positively to the changes suggested, he became upset. So, although it was an interesting read, it was not helpful.

Feb 08, 2017

I read this book through twice because I felt the insights were so important for me to remember. A main benefit of the book was the knowledge/reminder that (many) men are "wired differently" than females and have different needs and different values and different expectations. I needed the reminder that I perceive life differently than my husband, and now I'm open more open to the notion that his outlook, while different than mine, is not inferior.

The book is written by a Christian pastor, so will likely be more accessible to Christian readers, but I recommend that all people in relationships read it and experiment with the ideas and test whether they have value for themselves. We are all wired a little differently from our partners.

Thanks Emerson and Sarah!

Sep 13, 2014

While there is a good message in there, I strongly disliked how often the author uses name-calling to try to empathize with the wife/husband. I'd recommend reading Dr. Gottman's work, which the author references several times.

Jul 09, 2013

This book is amazing! Some have said that the book is dry or slow; I didn't think so, but you may also search for the video series. My friends rave about the videos.

Proverbs31woman Dec 23, 2012

This is hands down my favorite book about marriage and relationships. I think it is especially important because of the focus on mens need for respect. If you have the opportunity to attend this conference live or even via DVD at a church hosting it, I would recommend it. It is life changing.

Jun 25, 2012

Definitely a eye-opener. Every married couple should read this! An awesome book that has changed the way I approach my marriage :)


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Jul 09, 2013

This book breaks down how marital friction can start and shows how to reverse it. Continue that action and your relationship keeps getting better and more intimate.
It has 3 parts: First for the general audience, then specifically for the husband, then specifically for the wife. Although, it is very beneficial to read all parts because it gives good perspective.


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